How to Reach Your Goals for 2022
From Dead Man Walking to 90,000 Push-Ups
Last week on the Men in the Arena Podcast, we interviewed my friend and fellow NCMM Board Member, Rod Handley. Not only is Rod the president of Character That Counts, but he is a Stage Four cancer survivor. Three years ago, while undergoing surgery to remove gall stones, surgeons discovered a rare form of cancer nicknamed, “Dead Man Walking Cancer” because, by the time it manifests symptoms, patients live about one day before dying.
Fortunately, it was discovered, tumors removed, and Rod survived, albeit a much weaker man. Rod decided to regain his strength by doing 65,000 push-ups in a year. The problem? Rod was unable to do a single unmodified push-up! His story is truly inspiring. Check it out here!
His story inspired me to the degree that in 2022, I and more than 300 Arena Men are embarking on the 65,000 Push-Up Challenge. Click here to join the challenge and here to join our Facebook support group, it isn’t too late!
Another Dead Man Walking
John 11 contains the Bible’s shortest verse (“Jesus wept.”) in the story of Jesus raising Lazarus from the dead.
What struck me was that Lazarus was resurrected—raised to life by Jesus—alive but wearing dead man’s clothes. Still carrying the baggage of death. The first thing Jesus did was remove the filthy rags and replace them with the new clothes of life! No one puts new clothes over their old, stinky ones, but exchanges the old for the new.
Every year in January, I unbind any death wrappings that have hindered my best version through prayer and goal setting. These goals have brought new life, hope, vision, zeal for God, and living out John 10:10b, “I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”
New Clothes. New Song. New Life.
Seven times in the book of Psalms (Songs) we are told to sing a new song. Isn’t that interesting? In the Song (Psalm) Book of the Bible, we are told to sing the mysterious new song.
The Hebrew word most often used is, chadash which means bright, fresh, and new. Even the best songs get boring if overplayed, and we need a chadash song to celebrate God, better ourselves, and change those around us. We sing a new song by scribbling new music and lyrics through setting new and fresh goals.
S.M.A.R.T. Guys and New Songs
Last year I wrote to you about how to set S.M.A.R.T. goals. This is a vital step that is often overlooked. Experts tell us nearly 80% do not accomplish their New Year’s goals, and I believe it is because many never transitioned their dreams into an actionable plan. Here is a great plan using the S.M.A.R.T. acrostic.
Lily Tomlin joked, “I always wanted to be somebody, but I should have been more specific.” What exactly do you want to accomplish? Avoid generalities and abstract statements like, “I want to lose weight.” What exactly do you want to accomplish?
If you’ve ever listened to horrible karaoke you know what I mean. Vague goals are like singing a song on the radio before learning the words. You hum and mumble your way through without ever knowing what song you are singing. Every goal has a metric. A goal without a metric is either a dream, thought, or idea, but it is not a goal.
ATTAINABLE and REALISTIC
Most goal-setters lose their minds right here. Run your goals by your wife or a trusted friend. Ask someone to be brutally honest with you. You will thank them later. Do you have the ability, time, grit, and faith to step into a better version of yourself? Do you have the resources necessary? Do you have the time? Do you have the skills required to accomplish this goal?
Goals without a time limit are unable to be broken down into micro-goals to measure your progress, to observe your traction. Set mile markers, short-term goals, to track your long-term success. This is one metric you cannot live without
Push Through 2022
Men, it is not too late to join the 65,000 Push-Up Challenge on the way to over 15,000,000 collaborative push-ups representing the lives we will impact by our 20th anniversary in 2022.
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Welcome to the Best Year of Your Life!